“Glad Yogi’s finally home! Overall, sounds like things are going okay… it isn’t unusual for dogs who aren’t used to being crated to protest in the beginning. I assume you’ve read Surviving the Night with your New Puppy?
I’d spend some time doing the crate acclimation exercises, which should help him to accept being in his crate. We also have an article that discusses what to do if your dog barks in his crate, so check that out for solutions to the barking.
I would NOT have him sleep free in your room overnight under any circumstances! He’ll just get in the habit of having accidents and it’ll be a disaster! I’d say there are 3 options for overnight… crate, confinement area (exercise pen or small room) with potty pads, or you can do what I did with my little Teddy when she first came home and have his leash on him and have him sleep in the bed with the leash tied to your wrist. This way, if he starts to move around overnight, you’ll know it’s time to get up and take him for a potty trip.
If you decide to try the crate again, you may find it helpful to put the crate on your bed in the beginning if it’ll fit, or you can put it on your nightstand or a chair next to your bed so puppy is at your level right next to your face… this makes the puppy feel more secure since he’s right next to you.
Be sure to wear that little sucker out today so he’s tired and ready to SLEEP tonight! A lot of puppies want to sleep all evening, then they’re ready to rock and roll overnight, so be sure not to let him snooze too much prior to bedtime!
As for leaving him alone during the day, after doing the crate acclimation exercises it should be easier. Once you’ve done that, you pretty much have to just go for it. Just put him in his crate or pen with something extra yummy to chew on and leave. Try to wear him out first and try not to leave for too long in the beginning so he learns you won’t be gone forever. You’re right in thinking you should get him used to being alone for short periods right away… if you play with him all day for the next few days then have to leave him alone suddenly for long periods when you go back to work, it’ll be really stressful for the little guy!”
“Congratulations! I’m so excited for you- getting a new puppy is a big event, and lots of fun. Enjoy yourself with Yogi these next few days, they grow up so fast
On the training front, I agree with Rebecca- don’t let that little guy sleep loose. When they come from the breeder with no crate training, those first few nights can be really rough. Like Rebecca, I keep my puppies’ crates right next to my head, either sitting them on the bed or on a night stand next to me. And, if they are not doing well in a crate during the day, I tie them to me and let them sleep loose so that there is peace. The screaming at night is terrible!!!
I sleep on my side, so I tie the puppy to my waist with a short leash, pretty much forcing them to cuddle into my belly. I always wake up when they start moving around this way. However you tie them to you, make sure you will wake when they do and that you won’t squash them or let them jump off the bed and hurt themselves with the leash. In other words, don’t do this if you are a really heavy sleeper.
This technique is only for the first few nights. During the day you need to be training Yogi to stay in a crate or x-pen. Personally, I think all dogs should be trained to stay calmly in a crate, even when their owners don’t expect to use one- it’s important that dogs can be crated for their own safety and happiness. If you ever need to transport them on an airplane, they will have to be crated. If they have to stay at the vet’s overnight or be boarded in a kennel, they need to be crated or kenneled. A little bit of crate training as a puppy goes a long way towards making these experiences less stressful.
So, do a little bit with Yogi everyday, even when you are home. He only needs to stay confined until he is calm and quiet, so it’s not like he will be away from you a lot over these next few days. If you time it right, he’ll just use the crate for nap times which goes a long way towards making it a happy place for him. Keep us posted! (and try to never let him out again if he is protesting)”
“It sounds to me like you are really on the right track I would not get up if he is whining in the night- he has his pee pads and should use them. He doesn’t need your help and going to him will teach him to be noisy in his pen. Sounds like you’ve already stopped doing that, so you’re on track.
I would suggest keeping him completely off the carpet for a few weeks to prevent the quick pees, and again, it sounds like you’ve already decided to do that.
Nipping is totally normal in young pups. The number one rule is do not pull away the thing that he is biting- it only turns on his predatory instinct to chase and bite it again. If he is nipping your arm or hand, hold it completely still and use the other hand to stop him, either by grabbing his leash or reaching under his chin to catch him by the collar. Get him off your hand (or whatever) and then offer him something he should be biting (like a rope toy) and let him chase that.
Make it move to draw his attention and prey drive into the correct object. It helps if you put it on a string and use it like a cat toy, making it dance around and run when he goes for it. If you can’t get him into the toy and he keeps going after you, you may need to give him some time to calm down in his pen. Just remember- when he bites you, freeze and then slowly catch him and redirect him to his toy. Keeping a leash on will really help. Try to make sure you do not lose your temper. If you are getting too frustrated, put him in his pen and give yourself a little time to calm down.”
“Oooh, there’s nothing worse than a short-legged little male dog! So hard to tell when they’re peeing! I remember years ago reading a great comment about this (I think it was Ian Dunbar, but I read it in about 1989, so forgive me if I’m wrong!)… he said something like, “If your male puppy looks like he’s just standing there thinking, you can bet he’s peeing… male puppies are not great thinkers”. If he’s standing still, be afraid… be very afraid. Over time, you’ll start to notice subtle differences in his posture that will let you know if he’s emptying out or just hanging out.
Just be VERY careful about floor time… with brand new puppies, I try to give them little or no time with their feet on the floor in the house. The only time I’d have him on the floor for short periods would be right after a successful potty trip when he’s empty (at least for the moment!).”
“If my puppies are driving me nuts, I put them in a crate, x-pen or yard until we both cool down. You can give him a toy to chew on in there- it’s not punishment, just a break to calm down. When he’s calm he can come out again. With the closet I’m envisioning a tiny little dungeon full of brooms and old cleaning supplies- sounds like a scene from Mommy Dearest so I might avoid it Seriously, though, any puppy proofed area would be fine for a short break, but make sure it is safe- i.e, no brooms or bottles of drano.
Don’t worry too much about the wild behavior Yogi is starting to show- it all sounds like pretty normal puppy stuff. Your reactions sound right- keep showing him when he is wrong and praising him and playing with him when he is right. And, most of the dogs that I have known that were really destructive had owners who didn’t supervise them enough and gave them too much freedom, too soon. Make sure Yogi is always supervised when he is in the house- that way you can correct him on the first nibble of the couch instead of coming home to a giant stuffing party mess.”
“It sounds like Yogi is really learning very quickly Missing the papers or pads is a common problem. You can try putting a few pads together to make a larger area- many dogs like to circle as they go and a bigger area can help. The other thing that really helps is putting the pads in a tray with a raised edge. This helps to give pups a boundary and keeps them in the right area as they are going.
It’s great that you are thinking of your crate training ahead of time! Have you read through the crate acclimation article yet? That should get you off to a good start. If you still have questions, let us know.”